Trauma & Authenticity Coaching

Nothing
is wrong
with you.
Everything
makes sense.

For individuals, couples, families and leaders who are exhausted by their own patterns — and ready to finally understand them.

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Alek Martin — Trauma & Authenticity Coach Berlin

Most people come to me after years of trying to fix themselves. Therapy, self-help, willpower. Nothing sticks. That's because they've been treating symptoms — not reading the story underneath.

In one conversation I will likely show you something about yourself you have never been shown before. Not because I'm a genius. Because I've lived it.

Who I work with

You don't need
to be broken.

Individuals

Stuck in patterns you can't explain. You've tried to fix it. You're done guessing.

Couples

You love each other but keep having the same fight. Something deeper is driving it.

Families

Patterns pass from parent to child silently. Understanding your story is the most powerful gift you give them.

Leaders

Trauma doesn't stay at home when you walk into the office. The most evolved leaders know this.

Businesses

Burnout, retention, sick leave. These are not HR problems. They are trauma problems. Let's address the root.

SEVEN
YEARS.
EVERY
THING
GONE.

Loss · Darkness
Rock Bottom
Then: understanding.

Why me

I'm not a coach who only studied trauma in a classroom. I lived it.

I had built what most people dream of — lived in eight countries, financial freedom, a life on my own terms. Then my grandmother died. The woman who raised me. And in that one moment, every wall I had ever built came down. Everything I had never dealt with from childhood came flooding back.

I spent seven years losing everything — money, identity, purpose. I had to do things that only God, the devil and I know. Things I later had to fully own — because the day I stopped blaming and took complete responsibility for my life was the day everything began to change.

What brought me back wasn't a programme or a certificate. It was finally understanding why. That's what I bring to every conversation.

English · German · French · Luxembourgish · Berlin & Online Worldwide

The Mission

The cycle
stops here.

What you don't heal, you pass on. To your children. To your relationships. To everyone who gets close enough to feel it.

Cycle Zero is my mission — and the reason I do this work. It begins with one question: Would your unborn child choose you as their parent?

Not to shame anyone. But to make us all think before we pass on what was passed on to us.

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The Methodology

Mind.

Your patterns make complete sense. They were built for survival. Understanding why you think, react and protect yourself the way you do is where everything begins to shift.

Body.

Trauma doesn't live in your head. It lives in your nervous system, your posture, your breath, your gut. The body holds what the mind tries to forget. We work with both.

Story.

Your story is not your prison. It is your map. When you understand the story underneath your behaviour — fully, honestly, without shame — you finally get to write what comes next.

Work With Me

Three ways in.
One direction.

You choose where you start. I'll tell you where we need to go.

Hear My Story

€190 · 60 min

You come with curiosity. I share my story — unfiltered, unpolished, true. People don't leave with answers. They leave with the right questions about their own life.

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Clarity Call

€150 · 60 min

You come with something specific. A decision you can't make. A pattern you can't break. No small talk. No warm-up. You leave with clarity. Not comfort.

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The Deep Dive

Free Discovery Call

Long-term coaching. Bespoke. 5–15 sessions. 13 chapters. Built entirely around your life, your story, your transformation. This is the full journey.

Investment is tailored to your income. Real transformation should never be blocked by money alone.

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What people say

Real people.
Real results.

"In the first conversation Alek said something that 10 years of therapy hadn't managed to reach. I finally understood why I kept doing what I was doing. Everything shifted from there."

Johann Skierka

Berlin

"Alek is different from every other coach I've worked with. He doesn't take what he gives from a textbook — he has lived and tested it through his own experience. Clear recommendation for anyone who wants to genuinely engage with themselves and isn't afraid of uncomfortable truths."

Sandra Melitta

Top 100 Company — Senior Executive

"The path we took in coaching was defined by enormous empathy and maximum honesty. Alek helps develop honesty with yourself through clear, direct questions — in an empathetic and structured way."

Michael Schlutt

Director, H&M Germany

Common questions

Is this
for me?

Is this therapy?

No. This is coaching — not clinical therapy. I am not a licensed therapist. What I offer is a deep, honest conversation that helps you understand your patterns and take responsibility for changing them. Many clients come after years of therapy that didn't quite reach the root.

Do I need to be in crisis?

Absolutely not. Some clients have been through rock bottom. Others arrive because life looks fine from the outside but feels quietly empty on the inside. Both are equally valid starting points.

How does pricing work?

Hear My Story is €190. The Clarity Call is €150. The Deep Dive is priced individually based on what you earn — because real transformation should never be blocked by money alone.

Can I do this online?

Yes — fully. I work with clients across Europe and worldwide via video call. Sessions are available in English, German, French and Luxembourgish.

What if I'm not sure it's for me?

That's exactly what the free Discovery Call is for. 45 minutes, no obligation, no pitch. You'll know within the first 20 minutes whether this is right for you.

Do you work with businesses?

Yes. Leadership development, team dynamics and workplace trauma. Previous clients include H&M Germany & Austria, Harrods London and House of Entrepreneurship Luxembourg.

The first step

Your patterns
make sense.
Decide.

Book a free 45-minute Discovery Call. It will be one of the most honest conversations you've had about yourself in years.